Tips for Women to Enjoy a Loving and Lasting Marriage

There are only two relations that we choose consciously. First is friendship and second is marriage. We are at the privilege of being momentarily hurt when we have to break-up with our friends. So, in a way we have the cushion of selecting any bad friend. However, if our marriage does not work out then we have to bear with the bitter experience throughout our lives. Most women are particularly possessive about their husbands and in fact, marriage in a way gives them this right. Sometimes this extra-possessiveness can lead us to a disturbing question – Is my husband cheating?

This can be a mere doubt or there may be some truth. It is quite natural for men to fall prey to other women but if your bond is strong then he will surely come clean in some really trying situation. Remember, most men cheat unconsciously to satiate their self-esteem. Some men cheat only to enjoy the thrill of having a secret affair and those who have become bored of the monotony of their marriage. So, as a loving wife you have to ensure that the two cases do not arise.

To counter the first case, you must never indulge in petty fights or you must never ever try to humiliate him in front of friends or relatives. If you degrade or downsize his esteem he will surely start looking for other avenues or people to bolster his self-esteem. Any approach from other woman can just stimulate his desire to fulfill his ego. Remember, if you are doing so then you do not have the moral right to ask- is he cheating?

The second case requires you to take some prompt measures. It has more to do with pleasing him than hurting. Try to surprise your husband by dressing provocatively on the weekend night. Try to think about ideas for presenting yourself differently and the difference should always pleasantly satisfy him. You can take him for a dinner; you can take some time-off and plan a romantic holiday. Try to invigorate the romance by taking some thrilling measures.

After you have tried enough and you still feel suspicious then you must never start the topic unless there is any confirmation. And the best way to get confirmed is to sneak through his mobile phones. There are many cell-phone spy and sniper spy (for infiltrating the emails) available in the market. They are cheap options to affirm your belief.